PARENTING TIPS & TRICKS

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There’s something to be said about the power of PAYING IT FORWARD. When children learn to give without expecting anything in return, they discover that kindness multiplies.. it doesn’t run out. Teaching kids to notice others’ needs and respond with generosity not only shapes their character but also strengthens the world around them. If more of us embraced kindness, awareness, and care for one another, maybe, just maybe, some of the world’s biggest problems could begin to be solved one small act at a time.

1. Model generosity yourself

  • Children learn more from what you do than what you say.

  • Let them see you share food, help neighbors, donate time or money.

  • Narrate your thought process: “I’m giving some of my time because it helps others.”

2. Encourage sharing at home

  • Create natural opportunities to share—snacks, toys, turns.

  • Praise the act of sharing (“That was kind of you to let your brother use it”) rather than labeling them (“You’re such a good boy”).

3. Give them responsibility

  • Assign chores that benefit the family, not just themselves.

  • Example: setting the table, helping a sibling, walking the dog.

4. Expose them to needs beyond their world

  • Volunteer together at a food bank, shelter, or community cleanup.

  • Read books or watch stories about children in different circumstances.

Tips to raise kids generous:

5. Make generosity concrete

  • Instead of abstract lessons, use hands-on acts:

    • Let them help choose canned food to donate.

    • Give them a small allowance and encourage setting aside a portion for giving.

6. Celebrate effort, not just outcomes

  • Acknowledge when they try to be generous, even if imperfect.

  • Example: “I saw you wanted to share your toy—that was thoughtful.”

7. Foster empathy

  • Help them imagine how others feel:

    • “How do you think she felt when you gave her that cookie?”

  • Empathy is the root of genuine generosity.

8. Create family traditions around giving

  • Example: yearly toy donation drive before the holidays, making cards for nursing homes, or cooking a meal together for someone in need.

Kids become generous not by lectures, but by living in an environment where kindness, empathy, and sharing are part of daily life.

Preschool (Ages 3–5)

  • Sharing in small steps: Encourage sharing toys or snacks during playdates.

  • Storytime with a message: Read picture books that highlight kindness and talk about the characters’ choices.

  • Praise the act: Say “That was kind of you to share” instead of “You’re such a good boy/girl.”

  • Role-play generosity: Use dolls or stuffed animals to act out helping and giving scenarios.

Elementary (Ages 6–10)

  • Allowance with giving: If they get $5, encourage them to set aside $1 for charity or helping someone.

  • Family projects: Help them pick out food for a food drive or toys for a holiday donation.

  • Acts of service: Have them help set the table, pack lunch for a sibling, or write thank-you notes.

  • Empathy check-ins: Ask, “How do you think your friend felt when you helped them?”

Tips by age group:

Tweens & Teens (Ages 11–17)

  • Volunteering together: Serve meals at a shelter, join a community cleanup, or tutor younger kids.

  • Leadership in generosity: Let them lead a family donation drive or organize a cause they care about.

  • Connect to their interests: If they love animals, volunteer at a shelter; if sports, help with coaching younger kids.

  • Model generosity with peers: Encourage them to include new classmates, share time, or stand up for others.

  • Budget for giving: Teach them to budget money and time for causes they value.

Family-Wide Traditions

  • Gratitude circle: At dinner, share something you’re thankful for.

  • Giving holidays: Before birthdays or holidays, donate old toys/clothes together.

  • Random acts of kindness jar: Keep slips of paper with ideas (“Bake cookies for a neighbor,” “Leave a kind note”) and let kids pull one weekly.

Top Parenting Tips

  • Lead by Example

    Kids learn more from what you do than what you say. Show kindness, respect, and curiosity in daily life.

  • Listen Actively

    Give them your full attention, even in small conversations, so they feel heard and valued.

  • Set Clear Boundaries with Love

    Consistent rules provide safety and structure, while warmth reminds them they’re cared for.

  • Encourage Independence

    Let them make age-appropriate choices and learn from mistakes.

  • Prioritize Quality Time

    Shared meals, play, or simple rituals create lasting connections.

  • Model Healthy Habits

    From screen time to eating to self-care, your choices set their baseline for balance.

  • Celebrate Effort, Not Just Results

    Teach resilience by praising persistence, curiosity, and growth.

  • Stay Patient & Flexible

    Parenting is unpredictable; grace for yourself and your kids goes a long way.

Healthy alternatives and limits to screen time:

Encourage play, reading and hobbies.

Set screen-free zones like mealtimes or bedrooms.

Use timers & routines to help children balance screen time with other activities.

Too much screen time can be harmful to kids for several reasons: physical, mental, and social.

1. Physical health effects

  • Eye strain and vision issues: Staring at screens for long periods can cause eye fatigue, blurry vision, or “digital eye strain.”

  • Sleep disruption: Blue light from screens can suppress melatonin, making it harder for kids to fall asleep and reducing sleep quality.

  • Sedentary lifestyle: Excess screen time often replaces physical activity, which can contribute to obesity and weaker muscles/bones.

2. Mental and cognitive effects

  • Attention and focus problems: Constantly switching between apps, games, and videos may reduce a child’s ability to focus on one task.

  • Delayed language and cognitive skills: Excessive passive screen use, like TV, can reduce time spent on reading, imaginative play, and real-life problem-solving.

  • Emotional regulation: High exposure to fast-paced content can make kids more impulsive or prone to frustration when stimulation is lower in real life.

3. Social effects

  • Reduced social skills: Less face-to-face interaction can affect learning empathy, reading body language, and building meaningful relationships.

  • Online risks: More screen time increases exposure to inappropriate content, cyberbullying, and online predators.

4. Behavioral patterns

  • Addictive behaviors: Some games and apps are designed to be highly engaging, which can create compulsive usage habits.

  • Reward sensitivity: Instant gratification from screens can make real-world tasks feel boring or less rewarding.

Healthy Activities for Kids…

grouped by age that build physical, cognitive, and emotional development without relying on screens.

Infants (0–2 years)

Parent-child interactive:

  • Peekaboo, pat-a-cake, and singing nursery rhymes

  • Gentle baby massage

  • Reading picture books and pointing out objects

  • Tummy time and guided rolling/crawling exercises

Kid-alone independent:

  • Soft sensory toys for grasping

  • Stacking rings, textured balls

  • Mirror play

Social/group:

  • Baby classes (music, swimming, parent-baby gyms)

  • Playdates with other babies for sensory and social exposure

Toddlers (2–4 years)

Parent-child interactive:

  • Storytelling with props

  • Drawing or finger painting together

  • Simple cooking/baking tasks (stirring, pouring)

  • Nature walks and collecting leaves or stones

Kid-alone independent:

  • Block building or puzzles

  • Pretend play (kitchen sets, dolls, cars)

  • Simple crafts (sticking, coloring)

Social/group:

  • Preschool or structured playgroups

  • Sandbox or playground free play

  • Music/dance classes

Early Childhood (5–7 years)

Parent-child interactive:

  • Board games and card games

  • Gardening or planting seeds

  • Cooking simple recipes together

  • Bike riding or trips to the park

Kid-alone independent:

  • Reading books and looking at picture storybooks

  • Drawing, painting, or simple crafts

  • Building Lego or other construction sets

  • Basic chores (folding laundry, watering plants)

Social/group:

  • Team sports (soccer, swimming lessons, martial arts)

  • Group art classes or music lessons

  • Playdates with guided games

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Middle Childhood (8–11 years)

Parent-child interactive:

  • Science experiments at home

  • Board games with strategy (Chess, Scrabble)

  • Cooking more complex recipes

  • Outdoor adventures (hiking, geocaching)

Kid-alone independent:

  • Journaling or creative writing

  • Learning an instrument

  • Solo arts/crafts projects

  • Reading chapter books or exploring hobbies (model building, coding)

Social/group:

  • Team sports or clubs (soccer, basketball, scouts)

  • Group creative activities (theater, art clubs)

  • Volunteer or community activities for skill-building

Preteens (12–14 years)

Parent-child interactive:

  • Project-based activities (DIY crafts, home projects)

  • Cooking, meal planning, or baking together

  • Shared hobbies (photography, cycling)

  • Problem-solving games (puzzles, escape room challenges at home)

Kid-alone independent:

  • Coding, robotics, or electronics kits

  • Journaling, blogging, or creative writing

  • Learning skills (music, drawing, languages)

  • Fitness routines or personal sports practice

Social/group:

  • Team sports or martial arts

  • Theater, music, or debate clubs

  • Peer-led volunteer projects

  • Small group outdoor adventures

Teens (15–18 years)

Parent-child interactive:

  • Cooking family meals together

  • Planning and taking small trips or nature hikes

  • Home projects, art, or DIY

  • Deep conversations or book discussions

Kid-alone independent:

  • Advanced creative projects (painting, writing, digital art)

  • Learning practical life skills (finance, car maintenance, coding)

  • Personal fitness or training programs

  • Research or self-directed learning projects

Social/group:

  • Sports teams, clubs, or creative arts groups

  • Community service projects

  • Peer study groups

  • Leadership programs or summer camps